Try instead to take a moment and think about what the best way to say how you feel without hurting the other person is. You can get your point across so much better and together you can resolve the problem. It’s important to say what you feel but use your words wisely. You can fix a problem or start one just by using the right word.
By choosing to use positive words instead of negative ones, you will always come out the winner because it comes back to you tenfold.